Hearing My Words in Someone Else’s Voice

One day, shortly after hard copies of Every 90 Seconds arrived with their periwinkle covers to my doorstep, I rounded the corner into the office I share with my spouse and stopped short. I heard familiar words — words that sounded a lot like my words — in someone else’s voice.

The voice was Susan Bennett’s and the recording was a beautiful narration of Every 90 Seconds. My spouse had downloaded and was playing the then-newly released audiobook.

Among the many things that have surprised me on this journey with Every 90 Seconds, my reaction to hearing Bennett narrate the text was one. I suddenly felt connected to a stranger who had traversed every word of the text, co-creating an invitation to listeners to build a different world together. I was curious what she thought of the book’s messages, what it was like to travel the chapters alone in a sound studio. Did she stumble when she found that annoying typo in the last chapter, like I did during a bookstore reading? I wondered about inflections in her reading that caused me to listen and hear my own words in a new light.

And like so many other moments with this book, I also felt terribly out of my league, not knowing the rules of etiquette. Was it ok or weird or was I actually supposed to reach out to this person who had taken such care with words about which I cared so deeply?

As is the case in this wired world we live in, Bennett and I ended up connected on social media. And while she could suddenly see a bit more into my life and I into hers, the more time that passed, the weirder I felt about reaching out to say wanted I wanted to say all along.

So when I learned this week about the promotion that has Bennett’s recording of Every 90 Seconds on sale through Audiobooks until June 3, it seemed as good a reason as any to finally say: Thank you, Susan Bennett. Your narration of Every 90 Seconds was beautiful. I’m so grateful for the care you took with words that matter much to me.

And thank you also to all who give the book a listen (or a read)!

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Every 90 Seconds is also available from Oxford University Press or:

Published by Anne P. DePrince, PhD

Author of "Every 90 Seconds: Our Common Cause Ending Violence Against Women" (Oxford University Press), Anne is Distinguished University Professor of Psychology and Associate Vice Provost of Public Good Strategy and Research at the University of Denver. She directs the Traumatic Stress Studies Group.

One thought on “Hearing My Words in Someone Else’s Voice

  1. Thank you for sharing your powerful and beautiful words with the world!

    I just loaned my copy of Every 90 Seconds to a friend.

    Leanna

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